So, I (19F) started seeing this guy (20M) and we’ve gotten pretty serious. He happens to be Jewish. I grew up Catholic, and when I say I grew up Catholic, I mean I attended an all-girls private Catholic school. I was once super active in the whole purity culture thing. Now that I’m in my second year of college, I’ve drifted away from Christianity, to be honest, but I still celebrate Easter and Christmas.
He’s coming back home with me for Thanksgiving break because I want him to get used to my dad. My dad looks like a really mean guy, but he isn’t, so I just wanted to get him used to that. I also want him to meet my mom and my brother.
Soo the winter holiday season. Now, I understand that he didn’t grow up celebrating Christmas. He grew up celebrating Hanukkah, and our plan is to go visit his parents/family so I can meet his parents. But I wanna know if it’s ok if I bring them a gift. Is it disrespectful? I’m not really sure. I just really don’t wanna offend anyone. I just like giving gifts during the winter season because I feel greedy/selfish if I go to someone’s house and I don’t bring a present, especially at that time of year.
Any advice will be appreciated! Thank you!
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