What’s the reconciliation between these seemingly contradicting ideas, one coming from Deut. 28:63: "it will please him to ruin and destroy you."

Deu. 28:63 Interlinear

New American Standard Bible

“It shall come about that as the LORD delighted over you to prosper you, and multiply you, so the LORD will delight over you to make you perish and destroy you [???]; and you will be torn from the land where you are entering to possess it.

Ezekiel 33:11 (KJV)

… I have no pleasure in the death of the wicked; but that the wicked turn from his way and live…