The question about dating, gentiles and jews.

So I have had pretty bad experiences dating Gentile men like epically bad like abusive stalking me after I leave them pure evil like sociopathic like what people fear when they go out on a date I have experienced and then some, and I’m not saying all Gentile men are like this, but it just so happens that it almost follows with a few exceptions that the more Gentile, they are the more abusive and sociopathic. Again, please, do not skip over the part where I say with exceptions because I have dated some very nice gentlemen, but the most sociopathic the most abusive have been like blonde hair gentile guy.

And I’ve dated some Jewish guys I have not had any abusive Jewish guys, zero. And most men I’ve dated have been Jewish and maybe things didn’t work out. Maybe we met too young and then honestly the abusive ex Gentile guy kinda just traumatized me and kept me very much in a state of , not wanting to date anyone. However, I have been in touch with someone I like and have liked for many years, but I don’t know if I really should even seriously explore it. The guy is Gentile and he’s definitely a good guy, I’ve known him for 10 years, and he knows that I have a crush on him and we used to work together and we’ve talked about exploring dating. Now we don’t live in the same place, but he lives in a place that I want to move to anyway. And I did live there on and off over the last few years and for whatever reason, we just didn’t hang out when I was there. But we’ve had phone calls. We send each other pretty lengthy, text messages almost like little letters over the last few years. Like we’ve met each other families years ago and we work together and I don’t know we have a lot in common.

Obviously, one thing we don’t have in common is our ethnicity And our religious background. I’m pretty sure he’s like very Catholic and his family is really religious but he definitely knows that I’m Jewish and he has never talked about God to me ever I just know about his family. I care a lot about my religious background and I, just find that when I have pursued Jewish guys that I don’t know in general I just haven’t found anyone that’s like nearly as gentle and caring as this guy seems to be, he’s definitely like the most thoughtful man, I think I have met.

I don’t know how it would feel to see him like we haven’t seen each other in a long time, but he’s just such a kind, gentle person and I wanna figure out how I feel about this side of things before I see him and come in with the best of Intentions and offer the best sort of presentation of this side of things, but I also want to do it sincerely and without being naïve, which I feel I was when I dated the sociopathic Gentile guys and I don’t wanna completely abandon my self because I don’t think that would be fair to anybody in the situation so.

Anyway, I don’t know if anyone’s following this but I know it’s the Internet but maybe if you respond just like read what I wrote with care and feel free to ask follow-up questions but like don’t write me something blanket, dramatic extreme or you know black-and-white like I’m not looking for something flat I’m looking for something that takes and what I’m saying and Hopefully is genuine so anyway, thanks for reading.