Im jewish and my mom wants me to be with a jewish boy, when I told her I’m happy with my bf she told me that happiness wasn’t an excuse for going with a goy

I’m 21 and live at home with my parents who are quite religious, I’ve been with my bf for 3 years now and I’m happy, my parents keep using this against me saying how could I go with a goy and they panick when I go with him, I need advice.