27M in NJ and I tend to date girls in NYC because of the huge Jewish population there. Something that bothers me is that because there’s such a large Jewish population in the city, it becomes a numbers game. I recently matched with a girl on hinge who on paper seems to match where I am in life. Whether I go out with her or not, I wanted to try telling my next date that I don’t want to touch for a few dates. Whether it’s 3 or 5 dates, it would be more meaningful to not worry about hugging or kissing. I would rather make sure our life and Jewish values are aligned than get to hugging and kissing. I’d probably text her before the date that this is what I want to try. Has anyone tried this? What’s your experience like? Has anyone tried other advice?
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