For any Jewish lgbtq individuals here, how do you let go of labels?

I’m a questioning teenage who feels too straight for bi and too bi for straight. How do I let go of this need to find a label so I can just be myself. I wish I felt normal, but this hunt to find a perfect label has left me feeling like I’m stuck in between. I’m worried about the assumptions people would make about me if I just came out as bi and I’m definitely not straight. Is on the bi spectrum a label people use?

Im also greyromantic but struggle to consider myself queer even though I definitely am.