I’m joining a sabbath service for the first time to complete an assignment! Any advice?

Hello friends!

I am currently taking a religious studies class at a local university. One of our assignments is to join a faith service outside of our own religion, interview a leader of the faith, and write a paper on our experience. A few classmates and I decided to make a group and attend a synagogue. For some context, the synagogue is located in Colorado. I was born Catholic, but I have never really been involved with the religion outside of the infrequent attendance of mass. I have always wanted to participate in a synagogue’s service, but I was too nervous to attend as an “outsider.”

I reached out to a local Rabbi, and she was incredibly sweet! She mentioned how busy her schedule was with the upcoming holy days, but welcomed us to join a regular service with open and excited arms. It was truly such a kind gesture, and I am so happy to join!

I’ve done a bit of research, but I wanted to post here and ask a few questions to get some firsthand knowledge. From my understanding, I should dress in business clothing. Would a long, flowy dress that covers most of my arms and legs be appropriate? I have tattoos on my arms. Should I cover them up?

Some websites mention that a head covering for women is encouraged, while others say that a head covering is frowned upon for those who aren’t Jewish. From what I’ve gathered, it depends on the synagogue. I will ask the Rabbi, but should I buy one in advance, just in case?

I read about what the service may look like, but do you have any advice on etiquette or things that may not be obvious? I want to immerse myself and be as respectful as possible.

Also, I will attach the interview questions that we will ask the Rabbi. Is there anything you would add?

• What are the key beliefs or teachings that shape this community’s worship and life?
• How does this space reflect theological or scriptural ideas important to your tradition?
• Are there particular rituals or customs unique to this community?
• How are newcomers or visitors welcomed and involved here?
• What role do sacred texts play in worship and daily life?
• How are children and youth integrated into community practices?
• Can you explain the significance of specific symbols or objects found in the space?
• In what ways does this tradition relate to, or differ from, other Abrahamic faiths?
• How does your community engage with wider society or the local neighborhood?
• What challenges or opportunities does your community currently face?

Thank you all so much for your help!