Giving up dating Jewish ?

I’m a 30f and I’m wondering if there’s any other in my position.

I’m completely not religious. I eat bread during pesach and work on Rosh Hashanah. but I still have a preference to be with someone Jewish, especially after 7/10, due to similar backgrounds and culture but that seems to be almost impossible.

The Jewish guys that I have gone on dates with seem to not understand basic things like “Stop trying to kiss me” and to be honest I am fed up with limiting myself and restraining my future.

It’s my goal to have children and what am I meant to do ? Wait for someone that does not arrive ? I have had several opportunities to date non Jews that now I regret not doing so to be honest.

I was wondering if everyone else was in a similar positions and the decisions that they have taken.

Thanks