Finding my person as a jewish women

New York jew here. Been dating casually one-and-off since I was 18, i’m 28 now. I simply can’t find a jewish guy who shares my beliefs, values and interest to build something together. I’ve never even kissed a guy. IDK if it’s me or if the new york jewish dating scene is just that competitive and I don’t have what it takes. I’m starting med school next year, so I feel like i’m on a deadline to meet someone, which is silly but I still feel the pressure to find my person. Anyway just wanted to get that out there and off my chest for the online yentas bc the irl yentas (ie my mother) are giving me hell about it.