My sibling passed way about eight years ago. At the time we were all so shocked that my parents let his non Jewish wife decide all the arrangements. She chose to have him embalmed and buried in a regular cemetery. It’s always bothered the rest of us. Since then, my mom passed away and we put her in a Jewish cemetery with a proper burial. My sibling and I have been debating what to do. It’s been on their mind all these years and a family friend of ours has even dreamt of our mom came to her and said we had to do it. It bothers us they aren’t next to our mom. It bothers us it’s not Jewish. It just bothers us.
Should this be done, even this many years later? Does it matter? I’d love to hear your thoughts on what matters.
Edit: his wife and child are okay if we want to do it.
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