Searching for a book/article on trans people by haredim

This is specific book/article. I read an excerpt of it a little less than decade ago in Hebrew, and also translated personally an article that reviewed it into English. I remember the book essentially did forbid surgery, but said that if transition had already happened, the proper thing to do would be to respect the person rather than shame them in public. I believe the book/article was written by a Haredi rabbi although it might have been by an Orthodox rabbi or not a rabbi at all. It was definitely not written by a woman, a trans/queer person, or a man from a different denomination from the two I already mentioned. If anyone knows what I’m talking about I’d appreciate the name of it or the author, either in Hebrew or in English. Thank you in advance!