Why are Catholics more welcoming?

Over the years I’ve tried to delve into the my culture and my families faith. Understanding the history, the life, the blessing and curses, the wonders of our people. Yet no matter the Temple, House, or Forum. At every turn I’ve found a stark coldness from the tribe in this journey. Being asked to leave sabbath services that was a first attendance, due to not being a paid member, twice. Having my bloodline questioned(sephardic and ashkenazi with a dash of mizrahi) or just getting the cold shoulder while having a 1 on 1 with a Rabbi. To the point that yes I’ve literally found some Catholic priest to be more warm and welcoming than the tribe. Why is this?