I was davening a few days ago and during the Aleinu I had a realization. I have spent a large part of the past few years so concerned about getting into a relationship and sex that they have, in a way, become idols to me (see the connection with the Aleinu now? Hahaha). After some reflections I feel like I need to spend some time reorienting my concept of a healthy relationship.
That said, I’m looking for resources to help me build a healthy construct of what a relationship should be. I’m open to all sources, Jewish or otherwise. If any has any suggestions for resources relevant for LGBT men, that’d be even better.