My mom hates the idea of my getting a tattoo for a few reasons largely related to Judaism but she doesn’t know it doesn’t matter anymore.

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So I’m in my early twenties and I’ve wanted to get a tattoo for a few years now, but I mainly haven’t because of my mom hating the idea. Not all of her issues with it are specifically about this, but a big part of it is that it’s against Jewish law and that I won’t be able to be buried in a Jewish cemetery. Regardless of my opinion about whether that’s true or not, the other main thing for me is that I feel like that doesn’t matter anymore. I already broke that rule, I gave myself permanent scars on purpose (well the scars weren’t exactly permanent on purpose, but the injuries causing them were). So why should I care about getting a tattoo, at least as far as the Jewish cemetery argument is concerned. My mom doesn’t know about this. So I’m not sure how to go about this.