Hello— I rarely go to synagogue but wanted to see what the high holidays are all about and learn more about my religion.
Yom kippur is coming up quick, and there are three services I can go to: Kol Nidre, Yizkor and Nilah.
But I don’t really know what any of these are.
Which should I attend?
Are you attending all of them or just some? Which one do the most people attend/most popular?
How similar are all of these services? Should I go to all of them or just pick one? Is there a lot to be gained from going to all of them?
(I’m a Reform Jew if that makes a difference?)