Jews and Ham

Please excuse my ignorance pilling into the sub with my crass observations, but I’m genuinely here to learn,

What’s the average American Jewish person’s attitude towards ham/pork/bacon? Do they eat it? do they care if other members of the community do?

My observation is based on a number of TV shows that depict Jewish people eating pork products, not just as individuals, but actually serving it to large groups of Jewish people at formal events

Are the kosher rules not important to the community of American Jews in general?

Like I said before, I’m here to learn