Are there couples that last a year or more from the time they date, until they get married? From a guys perspective, I understand why it’s important, but it just seems so hard. Especially in certain moments. And I’m not talking about being together. In those certain moments, holding hands doesn’t seem so crazy to do. And it’s not only the physical aspect of it. It’s also the emotional need too. Is it really realistic to be able to control yourself as a male? If so, does anyone have personal experience or know of someone that has been through a similar situation?