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I don’t know what to do and this has been weighing on me for so long

I don’t know what to do and this has been weighing on me for so long

I was born to a jewish father, and a catholic mother. I’m baptized, had communion. Been to church once or twice and that monday school stuff which I think was connected to communion. And my parents have pretty much raised me with both sides of their religions, my dad not so much since he doesn’t follow every single aspect of his religion, and I’ve been to synagogue once when we visited his family in florida a few years back.

And I don’t know what to pick because I remember that my mother said I’d have to pick one whenever I get married but I don’t want to pick one over the other because I’m afraid it’ll hurt my fathers feelings if I pick catholicism over Judaism, and also his families feelings. And same if I pick Judaism over Catholicism because I’m afraid it’ll hurt my mothers feelings and her side of the families feelings.

Is it possible just to go with neither? Or do I actually have to pick?

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