I realize this might not be the best place, but I’m not sure how to find a good Schul to go to in my area. The ones I have found are either reform (I would prefer not to have musical instruments in services) or orthodox (my boyfriend isn’t Jewish and I don’t want him to be off by himself).
I moved from NYC, where this was very easy and I could also ask my old Rabbi for recommendations. I now live just outside Denver and am not sure what my first steps should be.
How do people find a Synagogue that you like? Just go around and try a bunch? Is there a list somewhere?