I am not orthodox just traditionally Jewish and will probably be looking for someone with those same values. I celebrate all holidays, go to minyan on occasion, speak hebrew etc. Not orthodox. Would a shadchan work with me or is it only for orthodox? Also how do you find an actual shadchan? Is it normally a paid service? I am very unfamiliar with this all but I am at a stage where I am looking to start a Jewish family in the near future and would like some advice.