So I’m frum, totally orthodox and shomer Torah Umitzvos. My values are traditional orthodox as well, and I’m looking for someone like that.
I grew up in the yeshiva/ shidduch world, but I’m sick and tired of random matchups from shadchanim and shidduch resumes etc and I am more secular in the sense that I am online, I enjoy TV and secular music, like to have fun, and will occasionally get high.
Basically I’m normal, but I don’t know how normal people date, outside of the yeshiva world. What Facebook groups, apps, online forums, or local NY/NJ shadchanim or programs do Y’all know of that I might benefit from? Thanks!