Frum/observant feminists or progressives (men or women): How do you relate to "She-lo asani isha" during Shacharit?

Why shouldn’t it be “who made me as I am” for everyone? For those who are observant but aren’t strict about their nusach, do you change it to anything else? If so, what is it?

Edit: I want to add that I don’t want to stir anything up – as I become more religious myself, this is something I’m consistently struggling with, and I’m curious as to the range of opinions out there. I’m curious about how others think about their relationship to this text!