I (18F) have been dating my current girlfriend (18F) for about a month now. She was raised Jewish and continues in practice to this day. In talking about one of her exes, she mentioned how unhappy she was with how ignorant the ex was toward her culture and identity, especially in their refusal to celebrate Hannukah with her (because they were Christian).
I’m Agnostic, always have been, but I’d really like to make sure I’m treating her right in terms of her faith. What can I do to support my gf? Any traditions or holidays I should know about to show her I care? Especially with Hannukah, how do I celebrate respectfully with her as someone outside the religion? Any input at all helps, I’d like to learn as much as I can!