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Am I supposed to honor my father and mother if they are abusive physically and mentally?

I know that “Honor thy father and thy mother: that thy days may be long upon the land which the Lord thy God giveth thee.” is one of the commandments of Moses, but are we also expected to do this if your parents are physical and mental abusers who spent your childhood and teenage years beating you and your siblings and destroying our self esteem with verbal and mental abuse? How is one supposed to honor thy father and mother if they are absolutely terrible people?

I hope this question is appropriate for this sub. I am a Jew who was raised reform, had my bar mitzvah in Chabad but now am not a member of any temple and don’t have a rabbi and consider myself a karaite Jew. I’m not trying to proselytize, but I want to know the best way to follow this commandment of Moses if my father and mother were both abusive assholes I have since cut contact with.

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